BE All That You Desire to BE!

So you did something for someone with all good intentions, you did it from the depths of your heart and took time and effort with the hope that they would appreciate it, because in your mind you fully believe this is what is best for this individual.  But, wait, you noticed that after you have done the good deed, the individual through there actions shows you that they are certainly unappreciative.  In fact they are appalled by it and tells others about what you have done in a negative way that hurts more than heal.

What would you do? How would you deal with that individual?  Has that ever happened to you? Are you going to stop doing good for that individual or everyone just because of that incident?

Many times even with our best intentions, people we love misunderstand us and even if we explain ourselves, the situation may get worst or not be understood with the motive you intend.  This obviously hurts and at times stops us from being all that we desires to be.  At times incidents such as these can cause us to react negatively and resent our loved ones, resulting in even a bigger challenges even a strained relationship.

However if in your heart you have decided to have an appreciative heart, to be the best you that you can be that reflects qualities that harmonies with love (joy, peace, patients, purity, goodness, kindness, faith, mildness, self-control, mercy, believing the best of others etc.) then this situation would be a test of your devotion to be the best you that you desires to be.

Reflecting qualities of the love and maintaining an appreciative heart is not an easy thing in life because everyone are not the same.  We are all so different and have different gifts.  Also many persons perceive things done to them differently because of how they were brought up or of their beliefs, environment and many other things.  Nevertheless the proverbial sayings "You Reap What You Sow", "There is more Happiness in Giving", "Do unto Others as you Would have them done to You" are all true sayings and they always work out what is good for all in the end.

Just as what goes up must come down because of gravity and the snow and the rain come down and water and flourish the earth, so too when you do good with love as the main ingredient, even if it is not received in a positive way, continue to do good with love as the spice in your actions and personality.  In time people and that individual will begin to see that you are sincere and they will bless you instead of curse you. 

In addition you would be teaching that person to perceive what true love is and assisting them to receive that love in them thus allowing them heal their wounds and the negative beliefs, that block out the love that is given to them.  Always remember true love never fails.  It always succeeds. So never give up in doing what is fine. It will always work out for the best of all concerned.  Where there is chaos give more love, where there is misunderstanding give more love, where there is tragedy give more love, because Love Heals and Love is like a diamond that never breaks.

Never let peoples attitudes, behavior, sayings, stop you from being all that you desire to be!

With all my love.

Your friend
Roxanne